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DPCON14 Takeaways

As you might know I went to DPCON14 or otherwise known as the Digital Parents Conference 2014. The conference was last weekend and was on a cruise to boot. Yes conference cruise or should I say a holiday and a conference. Oh well, you get the idea. This is a wordy post as I have so much to share. If in a hurry just look at the dot points.

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I was very much looking forward to my first DPCON14, the cruise and of course no kids so it would all be ME TIME! YES how amazing would that be. As you can imagine the me time and time out was wonderful and much needed!

Where I had breakfast. What a view!
Where I had breakfast. What a view!

We sailed on the Carnival Spirit and I must say that I enjoyed some of the cruise but really loved the conference and got a lot out of it. A couple of quick things about the cruise:

  • I was under the impression that soft drink was calculated in the ticket cost for the cruise. Not to be. I was not that upset about it but do like a soda/mineral water and that would have been nice to have with lemon/lime. I lived off the water, tea/coffee or a drink that I purchased from the bar
  • The public toilets for everyone were not kept all working. Some packed it in and others were just closed to get fixed. I did see some notes on toilets saying that “Beautification is in progress” I wonder what it would look like after it got pretty from the beautification process? My brain did think of a show of before and after renovations for this type of thing. I know silly, but with a sign like that you have to wonder.
  • Food was lovely.
  • It was great to meet some fellow bloggers and to put a face to a name. It does make a difference to meet people face to face.
  • Looking out to see the sea was amazing. I am from North Queensland and really miss the beach and the sea. It was a nice way to get my fix
  • Make sure that you have ample credit available on your credit card. My bill was little when I left the ship ($148), however I still have a hold over my card for nearly $500 that I don’t owe Carnival.  I find this the most annoying as I pay bills and live off the card. As hubby gets paid monthly this has put us out this month and it was not what I expected.
One of the many signs in the bathrooms
One of the many signs in the bathrooms

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So what did I learn from the conference?

Below are some of the talks that made me think differently or learn something new. Why not share my learnings with you and we can all grow and be bigger and better bloggers.

Katrina Chambers @katrina_tweets – The Media Maid

It was amazing to be in the same room with some amazing bloggers and I was excited about them all but as Katrina was on TV and on The Block, that I watch religiously I was keen to pick her brain and learn her tips and tricks.

  • Katrina had a nice printed blog tip list that she kindly handed out to us all. I hope she does mind me linking to her PDF for it on my blog.
  • One thing that Katrina mentioned is to gather your database. Yes collect names. This is for news on the blog, updates and for much more. How did she do this, via MailChimp.
  • Sizes of photos need to be the width of your blog.
  • Blogs look better with white space (Yes I know mine needs white space or more of it. My new site that I’m working on has plenty so don’t worry)
  • Get rid of background images
  • Always rely on Google Analytics Stats. Other statistic programs are good but if you need to quote something Google Analytics is where you need to draw your data from
  • My notes at DPCON14
    My notes at DPCON14

    Don’t overload your sidebar

  • For comments it is recommended to move to Disqus Plugin (pronounced “discuss”.) It was revealed that Disqus hosts your comments and if you move from them you might lose the comments. However another blogger, sorry I have forgotten who mentioned that if you use WordPress that the WordPress database hosts it all so all should be good if that is you. The reason for using the Disqus Plugin is that many people like to comment while logged in with Facebook or other social media. Katrina said she has received more comments since switching to this plugin. Might be something to look at.
  • Your Footer, are you using it? Why not transfer some related posts or further info to this space on your blog. It can free up the sidebar. Just a thought.
  • Update your blog website every 2 years. Don’t need to do a major overhaul but spruce it up a bit.
  • Get someone or others to critique your blog and what is working and of course not.

I fell across this site that does free user testing. They are called Peek User Testing and it is brilliant. You submit your site and they email you back with a video of a person going through your site. You can see the screen of this persons computer and they give a description of what they are doing and thinking at the same time. It might be a good thing to see how others use your site.

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Deborah Alter-Rasche @learn_with_play – Learn with Play at Home

Deborah was very inspiring and her talk was an insight on how to use Pinterest better and to help grow your readership with this social media tool.  Here are some points from Deborah’s talk.

  • Pinterest gets millions of visitors every day and it is growing!
  • My view at the conference. Hard day at the office!
    My view at the conference. Hard day at the office!

    Pinterest for Business: If you have a Pinterest account you need to convert your account into a business one. Why would you do this? For a number of reasons:

    1. Y0u get access to stats, Pinterest’s Analytics. See what pins were popular and how many times they have been pinned. How amazing would this be!
    2. You will also be able to get access to rich pins
    3. Info on Promoted Pins
    4. Pin it Button
    5. Widget builder
  • Sharing allows your posts/stories/products to be shared on someones boards and also with all the other people they connect with.
  • Start a collaborative board to allow more traffic to come to your Pinterest site and of course Blog.
  • Vertical pins work better 700 x 1000 pixels.
  • Cleaning up your boards and adding more attractive images can help draw more interest and traffic.
  • Post 20% about your content and post 80% on others.
  • Do you want to see stats and how popular pins are? Then go to this address http://www.pinterest.com/source/ and after the word source type in your url. So it should look like this http://www.pinterest.com/source/yourURL

I did notice the business accounts on Pinterest but did not think that applied to me. Now I know better and I’m working away applying the knowledge to my blog. Thanks Deborah.

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Katrina Springer @Organised_House – The Organised Housewife

I love Katrina’s blog and site The Organised Housewife. I think she has done a brilliant job and I was so pleased to have a one on one with her about my plans and ideas for my blog. Katrina of course gave some great tips and things to think about in her talk.

  • My pass to the conference
    My pass to the conference

    Katrina automates all of her social content and is of course very organised. She has a schedule and that is what I need to orgainse more. Anything on Instagram gets published on Facebook and anything on Facebook can get published to twitter. So must get more automated.

  • Note to all. Facebook is changing their look of their timelines. I did click on the put me on the list but not sure what the changes will look like until they are here.
  • Since Facebook is changing image sizes are changing so there will be a new image size guideline soon
  • Be uniquely YOU!
  • Make sure that you put a bit of text on pictures to describe what they are about. These pictures get more clicks.
  • Insights on Facebook help and there is recommended posting times. However they might not be right for your audience. Look at the times that suit your audience. What times do your readers like to see things. What is your popular times. Go to insights, then posts and look at times.
  • Make your timeline work. Change it to suit what you are promoting or doing at the time.

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The next one is my last one to talk about. So this long post will soon end.

Kelly Burstow @beafunmum – Be a Fun Mum

My mango cocktail at the end of the conference
My mango cocktail at the end of the conference

Kelly made me think about things very differently and she was just amazing! So glad that I got to hear her talk. Kelly’s talk was making sure that we knew not lose the core and spirit of our blog or purpose.

  • Kelly said that farmers don’t use fences but use wells to make sure cattle get home or stay where they should. Wells are a life force and fences take work to fix, install and are expensive to roll out in some areas as the farms are too enormous. The same is for blogs. Why build fences that undermine your options or opportunity why not build wells to allow growth and ideas to generate. If you build wells your readers will return to the life force, otherwise known as your blog or business.
  • Why wells? According to Kelly it is for the following reasons: Respect for the landscape, Respect for the reader and Respect for the concept
  • Invest in your concepts
  • All popular blogs have a story
  • Find out your WHY. Just like Apple has a story and people buy into the story not the product, the same goes for your blog/business.
  • Keep developing your WHY which is the heart of your blog
  • Kelly’s talk reminded me about a TED talk from Simon Sinek that I saw last year at university. See the video below:


I had a great time at the Digital Parents Conference. I am so glad that I went and learnt many things due to being there. I am very grateful that the world worked in my favour to allow me to go. My mum came and looked after the twins to take them to school. I was lucky that she was available to do this. So thanks mum! Now to put all these learnings into action!

Did you go to DPCON14? What was your favourite talk that opened your brain to a new way of thinking or doing? Thanks to all the speakers and organisers for making the conference possible.

 

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5 years and beyond

The Facebook Grapevine

Not long to go before Christmas Day and of course something that the twins are asking for I could not find. I searched and searched and could not find it. One place did stock it locally, however they were out and were going to get new stock. This new stock would have taken a week or so to get here and of course I would miss Christmas. Why did I not notice they had it before. Typical really. At least I know where to go in the future.

I thought why not use the power of Facebook. Yes nearly everyone is on it, and some of my mates from school, family and of course people that I used to work with. I asked the question of what I was looking for and you would never guess. One of my school friends managed to save the day or Christmas actually!

She knew what I needed, She was in the right area and in the shops at the time the update on Facebook came up. I saw her comment to my status and then all was organised. She purchased the goods, and what made things even better was that she was going to be working near by. All I had to do was go and pick them up and give her the money that she spent.

Have you used the power of social media or your network to solve a dilemma or get a needed item. If so what and how well did it work? Was it for a present, a surprise or just for you? Let me know. I am just so amazed at the good timing and how the right message to the right network at the right time can make all the difference.

The kids will be so amazed that they got what they wished for. Three more days to go before the living room floor is covered in wrapping paper. I am getting excited to see the girls faces. I still have to wrap them so they can be unwrapped. Have you got it all sorted?

Send in your comments.

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Stop Censoring Motherhood – SOCIAL MEDIA DAY OF ACTION

Mother-of-nine Lovelyn Palm breastfeeding her twins Emilia and Evelyn. Picture: Ashlee Wells Jackson
Mother-of-nine Lovelyn Palm breastfeeding her twins Emilia and Evelyn. Picture: Ashlee Wells Jackson

Instagram and Facebook are removing images of mothers with their babies. They are citing that the images are lewd and therefore need to be removed according to their policy.

Ashlee Wells Jackson a photographer has started the “Fourth Trimester Bodies Project to celebrate the post-pregnancy body – stretches, stripes, scars and all.” I believe that these images are beautiful and not lewd or obscene in any way. It is a celebration of women, their bodies after having a baby and motherhood.

The Fourth Trimester Bodies Project is asking that you bombard Instagram and Facebook with images to protest and show your support . Also please sign the petition to help change the policies so that these images will not be removed in the future.

I have signed the petition, I urge you to do so as well.

I am sure we can all help create change. Get your camera and get snapping, then upload them as soon as possible.

Photographer Ashlee Wells Jackson is celebrating the ‘stretches, stripes and scars’ that come after pregnancy. Picture: Ashlee Wells Jackson
Picture: Ashlee Wells Jackson

Ashlee Wells Jackson I hope you don’t mind me using your fab photos to help the cause. I have made sure to credit you.

 

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Mummy to Twins is now on Pinterest
Mummy to Twins is now on Pinterest

Hi all, Mummy to Twins is easier to follow now. We have just added Pinterest to our list of social media. If you are not aware, Pinterest is a great place to just collect ideas, see what others are doing, and get links to their sites. Once you have this information you can then use this as part of your toolkit, for craft, sewing, ideas, or advice. It is also a great tool for shopping and home improvement ideas.  I love looking at the great glossy pictures of all the pretty houses, very envious, maybe this can be a tool for planning the new house?

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3 years and beyond Family

The dangers of the 2nd of April

The 2nd of April according to Facebook is the day people are breaking up, sad but true.  A data analysis was conducted over the year 2010- 2011 and it found more changes to everyone’s relationship status.  “April 2nd was the year’s most extreme day in the other direction, with 11% more break-ups than new relationships.” (Facebook, 2012)

I for one don’t understand why the 2nd of April is such a dangerous time for relationships. Do you know or have an idea?

In Andrea Black’s article, “Fifteen ways to leave your lover” she wonders “How could so many April Fools jokes go awry?”  Maybe this is the answer, bad jokes. If you wish to keep your lover/partner/girlfriend/husband/wife, don’t participate in April Fools jokes.

Now it is the 3rd of April here in Australia, I have made it unscathed by this weird phenomenon. The day must have magic powers or dark forces attached to the date. Not sure exactly, just very interesting that one day has proven such a bad day for relationships.

Wonder what other days we should avoid?  Maybe this skill from Facebook can be used for good, can we find out what days we are more likely to win at lotto? Get a pay rise at work? Any other good luck and feel good things would be nice too.

Let me know if you were okay from the negatives from the 2nd of April. Hope you are all okay and still with your special someone. Send in your comments.

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